Friday, September 30, 2011

Judgement

I never really thought of myself as a judgemental person.  The way I see it is I have always said what is one my mind and if offended others then it was their fault.  I wasn't judging them, I was just telling them the truth.  Well I guess I was wrong....

Sometimes I need to remind myself to look into the mirror...I need to remember that I have struggles, that I am imperfect and in need of a reality check from time to time.  I need to remember that I have fallen and made many mistakes before I start to share my opinion with others about their problems.  Maybe it makes me feel better about myself when I can compare my problems with others.  I dont know.  I have always justified this by saying "well the stuff I have done wrong isn't nearly as bad as what they are doing".  This is foolish....It doesn't matter what your fault is.  If your faults hurt others, they are the same. 

I cannot compare what is going on in my life with what others have going on in theirs. 

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